When I first started this blog, I had full intentions of updating it weekly. That lasted for about two weeks. Between work, school starting, kid time and keeping on top of everything that this diagnosis has brought.....my head felt like it could explode. And I was given strict orders from the nurse to stay away from Social Media while on pain meds. No telling what I would have broadcasted!
Since my surgery 2 1/2 weeks ago, I've been forced to unplug from from my normal daily routine. It's been actually been the best medicine for healing. Dr. Cross, the Breast Surgeon, and Dr. Atwood, the Plastic Surgeon, were both involved in the surgery as the reconstruction began concurrently with the mastectomy. I had been prepped by many women who've already gone through the process. So far, everything has been just as they all described to me. I spent one night in the hospital and was home by 11:00 am the next day. I'm not going to lie....those first 4-5 days were pretty rough. There was no bed in the house I could have easily got in and out of. So, I've took up residence on a living room recliner. I came home with four drains, which were nothing short of annoying.....but manageable. I was able to get two out within 6 days. The last two came out earlier this week, at day 14. This was a big day.....shower day. There is no spa treatment that could have possibly felt as good as that shower did.....even though I'm still unable to wash my hair.
Dr. Cross called me a couple of days after my surgery with my pathology report. I received the most excellent report! No additional malignant areas in the right breast outside of the original tumor site, which was less than 6mm. AND....no cancer in the left breast!! Less than 6mm. A tiny dot! The size of a tick. The size of a Fruity Pebble! A BB Gun pellet! I think I can live with that. God is so good!!
I began to feel so much better last week. So good, that I haven't realized my limitations. I was scolded by the doctor last week for not resting enough and doing too much.
My sweet mother-in-law left on Sunday after a two week stay. She has been a life saver for us and I don't know what we would have done without her.
What's next? I have an appointment in two weeks with an Oncologist to discuss additional treatment. The focus now shifts to minimizing recurrence. I will keep y'all posted on that.
I currently have expanders that were put into place on the day of the surgery. As uncomfortable as they are, they give me a little shape.....and emotionally, that goes a long way. I'll go in biweekly to have saline added to the ports of the expanders. Once we are all satisfied with "projection", I'll have a final procedure to remove the expanders and they'll be replaced with implants. I am absolutely amazed at the progress that has been made with breast cancer research and treatment. Survivors now have hope of returning to a very normal life.
I cannot thank everyone enough for all the prayers, flowers, food, gift cards, checking on us....and on and on and on. I've been in very good hands as you can see by my charge nurse, who's decided to break dress code.
I cannot thank everyone enough for all the prayers, flowers, food, gift cards, checking on us....and on and on and on. I've been in very good hands as you can see by my charge nurse, who's decided to break dress code.